After a long day working, housework is the last thing people want to do. It is inevitable that housework just needs to get done. The more people in your living space, the more to clean. And even living on your own can be alot as well. In your household, find balance deligating chores. Speak up and ask for help when you need it. No one in your home can read your mind and you cannot assume that others know what to do. The leader of the household (manager) needs to communicate kindly as to what needs doing. Be part of a happy home life. Thank the person who made dinner (why not)...clean up after dinner if you didn't make it. Everyone wants to be noticed and appreciated. If you praise people for what they do, they most likely will enjoy doing it because it is noticed. When you're home...get your head out of work and BE HOME!!
Work will be there tomorrow. Bring presence in all the areas of your life, even cleaning. Notice what is going on around you and within you. Make cleaning fun.
If you have housework blues....take a deep breath and seek out a helper....don't forget to put on some music to enhance a positive mood!!
Don't sweat the small stuff, just be aware of how you act when housework needs doing. Be grounded and ask for what you need. If you really think about it, we are all a bunch of souls having a human experience anyways...have fun with life...